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Welcome to another episode. Today we're tackling a question that keeps many Ontario families in the middle of a major change up at night: When you're getting divorced, should you choose mediation or litigation?
Let's start with the basics. Think of mediation as a guided conversation. You and your spouse sit down with a neutral mediator – think of them as a skilled referee – who helps you work through issues like property division, spousal support, and parenting arrangements. You're in the driver's seat, crafting solutions that work for your unique situation. Litigation, on the other hand, is the traditional courtroom battle. A judge listens to both sides and makes binding decisions about your future. It's formal, structured, and final.
So when should you choose mediation? Here's a checklist: Can you and your spouse be in the same room without World War Three breaking out? Are you both committed to playing fair? Do you want to keep your private business private – because remember, court proceedings become public record? Are you watching your budget? Mediation typically costs a fraction of litigation.
Most importantly, do you have kids? Mediation can preserve your ability to co-parent effectively. After all, you'll be dealing with each other for years to come at soccer games and graduation ceremonies.
But mediation isn't always the answer. Sometimes you need the big guns of litigation. If there's been domestic violence, don't even consider mediation – your safety comes first. If your spouse is hiding assets, playing games, or simply refusing to cooperate, you'll need a judge's authority to cut through the nonsense. Complex financial situations – think multiple businesses, international assets, or significant debts – often require the formal discovery process that only litigation provides.
The thing is, about 95% of cases settle before trial, even when they start in litigation. Many couples try mediation first, then switch to litigation if they hit roadblocks. There's no shame in changing course.
Some advice? Start by asking yourself one honest question: "Can we work together to solve this puzzle?" If the answer is yes, mediation might save you time, money, and emotional energy. If it's no, don't force it.
Remember, regardless of which path you choose, get independent legal advice. A good family lawyer will help you understand your rights and ensure any agreement protects your interests.
That's all for today. Remember, every family's situation is unique, so what works for your neighbor might not work for you. Take time to consider your options carefully.
Until next time, take care of yourselves and each other.
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